God’s Grief

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Does God ever grieve?

If He does, what causes God to grieve?

Man.

Man and his free will… In Genesis, God gave us the ability to choose and from time to time, we choose evil, instead of good. Of course Adam chose evil in the Garden. By Genesis 6, God was ready to give up on humanity because God saw the significant violent evil men were doing to other men and God wanted to start over.

I have posted on theological determinism* lately, the idea that whatever happens in our world, God has control over it; whatever happens in our world, it is part of God’s plan; whatever happens in our world, God can use it for good.

Not in Genesis 6.

We all know the story of Noah. Why could God not turn circumstances around? Theological determinists say that is the way God works. God can take any horrible event on earth and use it for His purposes. Why did God have to have a “do over” in Genesis?   We are so used to the unchangeable God; the God of Malachi 3:6 “For I am the LORD, I do not change”, but in Genesis 6, we read these words about God “And it repented the LORD that He had made man on the earth, and it grieved Him at His heart” [Genesis 6:6].

What did God have to repent about? He did not sin. His regret was that He created man.

I have posted that much of the tragedy that happens in the world is due to accidents. I have posted that much of the tragedy that happens in the world is due to choice.

God could stop those accidents and God could stop our bad choices but He doesn’t.

We make a mistake with theological determinism when we take it too far.   We can give God so much power to manipulate circumstances that we take away the significance of our power to choose and that is wrong. God wants us to choose. He wants to see how we choose. The choices we make reveal the people that we are. In Jeremiah 18: 7-10 we see the words “The instant I speak concerning a nation and concerning a kingdom, to pluck up, to pull down, and to destroy it, if that nation against whom I have spoken turns from its evil, I will relent of the disaster that I thought to bring upon it. And the instant I speak concerning a nation and concerning a kingdom, to build and to plant it, if it does evil in My sight so that it does not obey My voice, then I will relent concerning the good with which I said I would benefit it.” God is waiting for a nation to choose good.   If a nation does, the nation will be rewarded. If a nation chooses evil, it will be punished.

So it works with man.

I believe that good choices result in blessings and a happy God.

Bad choices result in evil results and an unhappy God.

Pastor Hamilton in his book Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White feels that God can do anything He wishes but He ordinarily uses a less direct means of influencing the choices of man.

How does the less direct method work?

One way is the reading of scripture. I have always heard that the more you can get the Bible in you, the more you can overcome evil. In my life, I have developed a joy for Bible reading and certainly The Book is an inspiration in tempting times. It is full of passages of men and women who fail to overcome the temptation to do evil and they suffer the consequences.

Another way is the church. I know a lady at my church who has said over and over that she comes to church every Sunday to get her spiritual batteries charged. Well, there is a lot of truth in that. Regular worship of the Lord can inspire us to lead better lives.

Finally, the Holy Spirit can inspire us. Yes folks we all have one. Holy Spirit is what Christians call the urge to follow the ways of Jesus Christ. Non-Christians may think the Holy Spirit is just conscience but the triune God that resides within us is more than that. The Holy Spirit was given to live inside those who believe in Jesus, in order to produce God’s character in the life of a believer. In a way that we cannot do on our own, the Holy Spirit will build into our lives love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

Yes, God grieved over man’s violent and evils acts in Genesis and God started over with his servant Noah and surely God grieves today over the million bad choices that man makes every day.

However, rather than start over, He lets us make our mistakes. Then He comes in and cleans up after us, hoping we make some contact with Him in His Word, His House of Worship and through listening to our Holy Spirit.

Can God use our bad choices as learning experiences? Can God use our bad choices as a means of reconciliation, atonement and salvation?

Yes He can.

I would imagine that it is painful to watch us fail over and over again but God is used to that. He knows our weaknesses; He knows our limitations.   Like a loving parent, He lets us fail, hoping we learn lessons from our poor choices. He does not step in to save us…

Even though He could.

 

 

*all events that happen are pre-ordained, or predestined to happen, by a monotheistic deity, or that they are destined to occur given its omniscience.

 

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Choices…

The previous post about my brother Mike was hard to write.

I phoned my Mom to warn her because she reads my blog and I knew it might be hard for her to read.

But today I need to return to Mike again…another phone call.

That post entitled “Theodicy” on August 18 explained that many of the tragic things that happen in life are due to accidents. Mike died in 1989 due to an accident.

This flies in the face of many Christians who believe in theological determinism.*

In Mike’s case, theological determinists think that God brought about Mike’s death for a reason. I was in Marion Kentucky on the day of his death and I have a hard time thinking that God had anything to do with the pain that my Dad and Mom were going through that day.

Theological determinists [a very popular Christian belief] feel that God directed the whole episode.   He knew what was going to happen, and in fact He had a reason for Mike to die. God may not have been the direct agent that caused the death but He planned it and is ultimately the cause for the effect.

Our culture is obsessed with causes for effects.   When anything happens, we seek out reasons. In times of tragedy, too many Christians pin the cause on God; the loss of a baby in childbirth, the unexpected death of a loved one due to an auto accident or the horrific loss of a person due to criminal homicide.

Too many Christians lose their faith in the process.

Why?

They can’t accept that God can be the author of so much pain.

This past week the world paused to view the image of a Syrian boy who was pulled from the rubble of the Syrian city of Aleppo. We paused because we were shocked that this was happening and suddenly the news media put it right in front of us. The picture was hard to look at. To make matters worse, the following day after the boy was pulled from the rubble of the bombing, his 10 year old brother died from the same bombing episode.

How can we love a God who can be the author of so much pain?

Let’s take theological determinism and apply it to this situation.   God had a reason for the pain this child experienced. It was God’s will. God wanted to take his older brother. It is all part of God’s plan.

Or the horrific circumstances are the result of the choices of man.

Let’s return to my brother Mike. Mike had a difficult life. He suffered from epileptic seizures due to a very painful blow to the head on a construction project. He had a horrible fall from an upper level of a building and landed on his hands which broke all his fingers. Yet Mike chose to continue his life as an EMT with the Crittenden County Ambulance Service. I can tell you that if you had a need, Mike would help you in any way that he could.

He was a member of Marion Christian Church and he knew God.

Mike did not have to help the farmer repair the standpipe for his pond that day in 1989. He had worked hard the previous day on his farm and was probably too tired to take on this task. But he had the skills to do this work and he was an experienced scuba diver. He also lived his life helping people.

He chose to take on this task.

We are not pawns on a big chessboard that God controls. We have choices. God gave us the human power to choose. Sometimes we make good choices and sometimes we make bad ones but God has made a world that has certain rules. We have the freedom to take risks in life where we challenge the rules or push them to the limit.   Pastor Hamilton cites the following: “God allows us to build homes in flood plains, and hurricane-prone areas.   God lets us smoke cigarettes, overeat, or become addicted to alcohol. And God allows us to abuse our freedom” [Seeing Gray, 128]. In the case of the poor Syrian boy, he was caught in the cross-fire of a multi-faceted civil war where people are hurting and killing one another, including non-combatants like innocent women and children.

Yes, my brother Mike may have died due to a tragic accident.

Also my brother Mike may have died due to his choices.

He chose to give of himself to help another.

I am proud of that choice. Proud of my brother.

 

*Theological determinism-God is involved in our world and has pre-determined everything that will happen on earth. God controls all things, knows all things and is all-powerful.

 

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Theodicy*

 

The family is grieving the death of a young family member. At the funeral home, people come forward in the receiving line to pay their respects.

You know…it is hard to come up with the “right” words. For many this is one of the most uncomfortable conversational situations that you will ever have to face.

Sometimes I have heard people say things like: “It is God’s plan”, “Everything happens for a reason,” or “This is God’s will.”

In my last post, I described the view that God got the world started and then left it to run on its own [a crude explanation of deism, better explained on August 15 in “God: Not Related to the Bad Things in Life at All?”].

Today we are going to begin exploring the opposite view: that God is very much involved in our world. This view is called “theological determinism”.   Pastor Adam Hamilton defines this as “God is not only involved in our world but has predetermined everything that will happen on earth. God is sovereign; He controls all things, knows all things and is all powerful. God has a plan and everything that happens does so according to His plan.”**

Unlike deism, theological determinism is the most commonly accepted way that Christians deal with the things that happen to us in life.

It is so easy to accept determinism when life is good but when life gets tough and we see tragedy, pain and just plain evil in the world we have to ask: is God part of all that?

Most Christians do think that God is a good, loving and just and the horrible things that happen are just us not understanding His plan. If things are not working out the way we want, we just need to trust God and be patient.  We cannot understand His plan because we are so present-centered. God’s view is a long-term view and He will ultimately work out things for the best eventually.   We just have to hang on and wait until our loving God does His work.

There seems to be a problem with theological determinism and it is this. If God controls everything, God directs everything, and God knows everything, then God becomes an agent bringing about action. God is the ultimate cause for an event.

God is the cause of the tragedy, the pain, the evil of the world?

Really?

If we say “everything happens for a reason” that means that God wills everything.

Stop for a minute and think…

Is your God really the originator of tragic times?

One of the most horrific things that ever occurred in my life was the death of my brother Mike at the age of 35.   He died as the result of a scuba-diving accident on a Crittenden County, Kentucky farm. His death was a shock to my whole family, especially my Dad and Mom. We can all point to terrible occurrences in our lives and we can try to place God in the midst.   Mike knew God and he was a member of his church. He was a good man who would help anyone who needed his assistance. In fact, he died aiding a farmer who had a plugged drain on his pond. Did God promise Mike he would never get hurt when he claimed Christ as his Savior? No. God just promises to prepare a place for us when we die.

Was God there when my family was going through the grieving process?   Yes, I believe He was as He found a way to help us survive this tragedy.   Several of us felt Mike’s presence in the days after his passing [see the post from October 16, 2015 “My Angel?”]. We found many ways to comfort each other as we drew together as a family and God was in that comforting process.

Here it is…

Was God responsible for Mike’s death?

Not my God…

Things happen.   Mike’s death was the result of a set of circumstances.   Maybe the best way to say this is, his death was accidental.

Not God’s will.

I was so busy trying to help Dad and Mom that I did not grieve his death. That came years later. But there was one thing that I did not do as a result of Mike’s death.

I did not lose my faith because I became bitter and blamed God.

[My discussion of theological determinism will be continued in the next post].

 

*Theodicy: the defense of God’s goodness and omnipotence in view of the existence of evil.

**From: Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White [p. 122]

 

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God: Not Related to the Bad Things in Life at All?

The book I am commenting on is called Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White and of course the book is about people’s opposing views [black vs. white]. What are the opposite views regarding God and the existence of evil in the world? What are the opposite views regarding the bad things that happen to all of us in life?

According to Pastor Hamilton, some Christians have a tendency to turn a blind eye to God being related to bad things altogether. To help explain that perspective, they use a means of explaining the universe called deism.

The opposed Christians have their concept of theological determinism to explain their point of view.

Today we will discuss deism.

I first encountered deism when I was majoring in English in college and I took an 18th century English literature class. My professor [Dr. Ward] was into deism and he explained that all the popular writers in England in the 18th century were “into it” also.

What is deism and how does it work for the Christian faith?

Sometimes my memory stretches back quite a few years, and in the case of Dr. Ward and deism, I remember him explaining that God created the world like a clock. He put it all together and got it running and it had a perpetual mechanism on it. It ran forever. God never had to touch the clock again.

What are the implications for all of us regarding a deistic God and the bad things that happen?

Well God could not be related to the bad things of life because God was not part of this world at all. Pastor Hamilton states “that God created the universe and set in motion the laws that govern its operation, but beyond the initial work, God is not directly involved in the workings of our universe. God does not intervene in our affairs. The universe is a closed system.”

Where does suffering come from?

Obviously God is not related to it at all in a deistic world so He could not cause it.

Suffering comes from the violation of God’s laws that He established when He set up the working universe and the natural processes of the planet: storms, earthquakes etc.

This lets God off the hook for the bad things that happen.

But is a deistic God the God you really believe in? What about prayer? Why do it?   The world is going to unfold in a mechanistic way despite our requests. What about the Holy Spirit? Do you depend on God leading you to do what He wants you to do? If He is not intervening in the world today, the Holy Spirit is not even relevant. It does not exist. Many Christians believe they have a relationship with God. We interact with Him. If God is deistic, there really is no relationship. How can man relate to some mechanism?

Besides the obvious need for connection with prayer, the Holy Spirit and Divine relationship, where are the other problems with deism?

Well let’s turn to the Bible.

My Bible says God knows me by name. God knew me in my mother’s womb. God made Israel His covenant people, lead them out of slavery in Egypt, hears the prayers of His people and continues to be involved in the story of His people. The New Testament tells the story of God being so concerned with this world that He sent His only Son to walk among us, “teaching, guiding, healing, and ultimately suffering and dying to redeem and save the world” [Hamilton, 123]. I don’t know how many times I have read about the Holy Spirit as our guide. John 14: 16-18 says “And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— the Spirit of Truth. The world cannot accept Him, because it neither sees Him nor knows Him. But you know Him, for He lives with you and will be in you.   I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.”

Does this sound like a God who is not interacting with our world?

I don’t think so.

But when we prove that God interacts with our world, what does that do to God and the existence of evil or at least the bad things that happen to good people? When bad things happen, couldn’t God stop them from happening? Is God the cause of the bad things? Does God stand by and let bad things happen [e.g. the case of Job]?

My God is part of my world.

When times are tragic, where is He?

Next post: “theological determinism”

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When Trouble Comes…

A young child is stricken with a rare form of cancer and dies.

A vibrant middle-aged man runs off the road and strikes a light pole and never recovers from his injuries.

A young mother begins to feel weak and over time she finds she develops Parkinson’s Disease and eventually succumbs.

Tragedy after tragedy…

How do we explain God in the midst of all this tragedy?

One of the main challenges to a Christian’s faith has always been understanding where God is when bad things happen. Many years ago, I read the book When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold Kushner. Rabbi Kushner wrestled with these very questions.   A few years after Kushner’s book appeared, Warren Wiersbe wrote Why Us? When Bad Things Happen to God’s People, a protestant’s spin on the same perennial questions.   Phillip Yancey makes an effort to provide helpful answers to tragedy and the existence of God in his book Where is God When it Hurts?

But are there any good answers?

Pastor Hamilton tries to address this faith-killing dilemma in his chapter entitled “Where is God When Bad Things Happen?”

My first thought goes to Job, you know the prosperous and blameless man who had the misfortune of becoming the object of a wager between God and Satan. The book of Job tells the story of a man who suffered the most chilling loss that any man could face. In a matter of hours, he lost all his earthly, monetary possessions and all ten of his children. Talk about tragedy.

After this massive loss, Job’s friends come around to console him. They don’t do a great job. One says that God would not inflict such tragedy on a man; it must be something that Job did.   Another says the suffering is harsh but in the long run Job will be better for it in the end. The third friend says it is all a mystery; one day it will all make sense.

Think about your own efforts to explain where God is in the midst of a tragedy that happens to a friend who is going through a hard time. Can you come up with the “proper” words? Can you make an effort to help make the pain go away? Do you feel you make things worse instead of better?

God does not explain to Job His role in this saga and the poor advice by his friends only causes Job to doubt his faith.

What happens in the end? Job does not turn his back on God and he is restored. His health returns, his wealth is greater than ever and he even gets a new family with new sons and daughters. He lives to a ripe old age.

Job does not get answers to why this tragedy occurred. He just clings to his faith and he is rewarded.

The second place I think of in my Bible is the book of James.  James 1:2-4 says “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

When I am not in the midst of tragedy, this sounds like brave scripture, basically saying “suck it up” because hard times will produce maturity in a person. I can see that. However in the midst of tragedy, these words may sound a bit harsh. In the midst of tragedy we feel the pain, the sting of it all. Telling us to find “joy” in hard times is a steep climb for ordinary humans.

Truly difficult times can make or break a Christian. Many a believer has turned away from God in tough times. What do we say when someone asks “How could God allow this to happen?” How do we reply when someone confronts us with “Why doesn’t God put a stop to this suffering?” How do we comfort when someone asks “How can God allow me to have so much pain?”

Pastor Hamilton calls this “theodicy”—“the problem of reconciling the goodness of God with the evil that happens in this world” [Hamilton, 121].

Pastors are confronted with these questions frequently as they find themselves trying to pastor grieving church members. But what about you? Do you have this all sorted out? Can you hang on to your faith in time of trouble. When suffering comes, can you confront the suffering with joy?

The reason Pastor Hamilton includes this chapter in his book is that we need answers to this question because if hard times are not here, they just left or they are about to come. Belief in Jesus does not make the Christian immune from tragedy.

We all know that…but where is God?

 

 

 

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The “Final” Destination

Well here we are…

I knew this day would come.

I would post my last thoughts on hell.

On June 28, I began my discussion of who is going to get into heaven, focusing on the Jewish people, Hindus and Muslims. Of course there are other world religions but Pastor Hamilton focuses on those three the most. On July 29th, I posted on the topic of “Who is Going to Hell?” From the 28th until today, I have written 15 posts that meandered around world events, like terrorist attacks by Muslim extremists, law enforcement murders by angry citizens, two political conventions and all the heated rhetoric of an American political campaign. Needless to say, I tried to pay close attention to what I expressed. After all, the book Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White is about coming together in peace and understanding over divisive issues, not making us a society even more divided.

In this last post on hell, the discussion will center on who is actually going to heaven?

We don’t know; over and over I stated that the inclusion or exclusion of people in heaven is the responsibility of God, not man.

Remember, the most liberal Christian believes that all will be saved except the few who have performed the most heinous acts [Adolph Hitler, Pol Pot and Joseph Stalin].

The most conservative Christian thinks God will be much more strict [no one will be going to heaven unless they have confessed their belief in Jesus Christ]. Of course that includes billions of people.

You see the opposed positions.

Is there a gray area here?

Let’s explore the Bible. In my reading of the Old Testament, it is almost exclusively about God’s relationship with a unique group of people, the Hebrews. But as Pastor Hamilton states, the story of God and man does not begin with Israel. It goes back to Adam and Eve and following the flood, the seeming universal interest that God has is with all of humanity. Genesis 18:18 refers to Abraham and says “all the nations of the earth shall be blessed [through you]. In Isaiah [a book I am reading now] God states that He wants all nations to come to Him.

Jonah in the Bible is sent to preach repentance to the Ninevites. Jonah does his job, the Ninevites repent and God spares them. Jonah is not happy that they are spared and he questions God. God’s reply in Jonah 4:11 is “Should I not be concerned about Nineveh, that great city, to which there are more than a hundred and twenty thousand persons who do know their right hand from their left. “

This begs the question: would God be concerned about the people of India, China, Saudi Arabia or even the people of His own land Israel?

When we get into the New Testament, we find Jesus concerned with the Gentiles. The Apostle Paul understands that God wants the Gentiles incorporated into the people of God . All they have to do is have faith and even that faith is a gift of the Holy Spirit. Rather than being exclusive, Gentiles are the people who are outside the Jewish faith; that includes all people.

The more I read the books of the New Testament, the more I see Jesus as a man who is concerned with “lost sheep” and “prodigal sons.” Jesus does not seem to be a man who shuts the narrow gate on people, he holds it open so more people can be included.

Will all people make it to heaven? I doubt it. Will the vast numbers of people who conservatives say “don’t measure up” not make it. I doubt it.

God chooses who will get the gift of salvation; men don’t. God is merciful. If you earnestly seek God, love God and respond to His mercy I believe He will extend His grace to you.

On August 3rd, I posted my thoughts on men who take on the mantle of God in declaring who will make it to heaven and who will not. I need to be careful but maybe these kinds of people have a sense of pride about themselves that is not healthy. Would it be a stretch to say that this ability to put people in hell and heaven may indeed be a sin?

Using myself as a sample Christian, who should I really be concerned about regarding heaven or hell?

I should be concerned about my own salvation.

I need to quit worrying about others’ final destinations.

What I am really talking about here is humility, you know, the word that is the opposite of pride.

I need to let God do His work. He looks into the hearts of people and He can see the truth that resides therein. I can’t see that. I am a mere man.

Like most of you, I do battle with judgment. I want to exercise my right to declare people either saints or sinners. However, the battle I am engaged in is worth it. You see, for me to get to heaven I need to know my place and my place is not at the right hand of God.*

That place was reserved for Jesus.

Not me.

 

*From the Apostles Creed “The third day He arose again from the dead; He ascended into heaven, and sitteth on the right hand of God the Father Almighty; from thence, He shall come to judge the quick and the dead.”

 

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The Power of the Threat…*

I had lunch the other day with a man who was born in Uruguay. His parents were missionaries. We have a group of people at my church who go to Costa Rica every year. A young woman in my Sunday school class is now in Haiti, serving as a missionary.

Why?

Why do these Christians go to far-away lands to share their faith with people?

I have been writing on people who are going to hell. I have been writing about what hell is going to be like. For several posts now the topic has been hell.

How are missionaries connected to hell?

What is the purpose of the missionary? Are they trying to save the world by spreading the word about Jesus Christ? Are they trying to keep people from going to hell? Well, duh—that is exactly right. Conservative Christians especially think this. People who are not Christians need exposure to the Christian message so they can be saved and they won’t have to suffer eternal torment in the fires of hell. It is the old exclusivist axiom: you are either with us or you are “agin” us [and by the way, if you are agin us, you are going to hell].

I am going to write the truth. Many people are very disappointed with this attitude. Pastor Hamilton knows of a young man who left his Christian roots due to this very issue. You know the old argument that if you don’t receive Christ, you will suffer in hell just did not appeal to him. He states “That’s not loving. That’s blackmail. That’s coercion. There’s something wrong with this picture.”

Really, what is wrong with this picture or message?

It contains a threat. It basically says that you either choose Christ or you will suffer, no in between.

The message of the missionary?

That’s what some people assume.

In reality, I like to think it is not like that. Some people who are missionaries have a softer sell. They help those in need and maybe their message of Jesus is incorporated in the offer of aid and assistance. I would hope that the message is one of unconditional love and acceptance. I would hope that the message is about improving life on this earth. I would hope that the message is about finding a new mission for life through joining the body of Christ.

It should also be about communion. I have written about this before but people need to realize that Christianity offers a connection to God that is rare among other faiths.

We just had communion at my church today and it was a pleasure to assist in serving communion. People came forward and received the bread.   “Then Jesus declared, ‘I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty’” [John 6:35]. That is a connection that is not seen in Islam, the Hindu faith or Buddhism. This is a fulfillment of a hunger that all people have. “This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins” [Matthew 26:28]. The wine that is served is a blood connection with Jesus, the fact that he came to earth to atone for our sins. When we drink the wine of communion we connect with the most self-sacrificial act that any man could do. In the Old Testament, the Hebrews used animal blood to atone for the sins of man, but Jesus shed his own blood for us.

Allah did not do this. Brahaman did not do this. The devas of Buddhism did not do this.

Ravi Zacharias said it best: “Jesus Christ is identical with His own message: I am the Bread, I am the Door, I am the Good Shepherd.”

The message of Jesus should not be a threat or coercion. I too get turned off by this approach. I have heard it first hand and I have seen people make life decisions based on a threat of hell.

My concern about that decision is this: is it long-lasting? Does it cause thoughtful reflection or is the response just a knee-jerk reaction, a fearful knee-jerk?

In Christianity, we have a chance to invite people into a better life, a chance to meet their deep spiritual hunger, a chance to help people understand the Gospel by using their minds. We really don’t have to threaten the person who does not believe. We have a positive offer.

We may not be missionaries to some foreign land but we have many opportunities to speak to people who don’t really know God. They are all around us. Why bother? Jesus Christ asks us to tell of our faith. Down deep we know the message provides hope for the world.   The commitment to Christ offers the chance for us to mend our brokenness, the chance to transcend the mere materiality of this world so we can live a much better existence here on earth.

This is not a threat.

This message does not inspire fear.

It’s a positive message, a message of hope.

 

*comments based on Chapter 12 and Chapter 13 of Adam Hamilton’s Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White.

 

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The Pride of our Judgement

Pride

Judgement

Boasting

Self-worship

Not words we want applied to us…

Yet many in the Christian community take on a job that is “above our pay grade” and we do it easily. We declare to others who is going to hell and who is not.

Let’s be real; that is God’s job, not ours.

Matthew 7: 1-3 records the words of Jesus: “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.   For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. ‘Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?’”

These words are pretty clear to me, yet over and over, I have personal conversations with my fellow Christians who deny that God will save certain people, according to their own set of personal standards. Sadly I have been in groups of Christians where it is even worse. I have heard groups of Christians “pile on” another Christian who has sinned. Essentially saying “I don’t want to have anything to do with this person.” As if they have never committed the same sin.

Is this not the epitome of pride as people who should extend grace to another cannot? Instead, they condemn.

In my reading of the Bible, it seems like the mission of Jesus is to save the lost. I am reminded of his looking for lost sheep and his story of the acceptance of the “lost” prodigal.   In the Book of John, Jesus saves the woman taken in adultery. She has been caught and the Pharisees are justified in stoning her, yet Jesus says the famous words that the one without sin should cast the first stone. The crowd drops their stones and walks away.

As I state above, we apply our personal standards to others readily, not able to admit that Jesus’ standards for salvation were much easier. I don’t know about you but I read that I am saved by faith. God extends His grace to me as a gift, a gift that I don’t deserve. I get His gift because of no work that I have done; it is my trust and my faith.

This is the crux of the matter for us humans. God looks into a person’s heart. We cannot. God sees the extent of what they are capable of. And God knows a person, formed us in our mothers’ womb, knows us by name and wants all of us to be saved.

I believe that God can apply His saving grace to anyone. It is His choice and not ours. And it is based on Divine knowledge, not our limited human knowledge.

As I write these words, I realize we all fall short in this area of our life. Social psychologists have studied the human practice of attribution. We seek to supply answers for human action. However, we “miss the mark” often, coming up with the wrong reasons for human action.

We just don’t see into a person’s heart.

God chooses to give the gift of mercy much easier than we do. If someone earnestly seeks God, makes an effort to love God and responds to God’s grace, that person will receive God’s mercy.

I sound like I am giving a pass to those who judge but I wonder if we deserve that pass. When we stand in judgement of others, we are really saying we are better than the one being judged.   We don’t have their faults. It is almost like we are taking credit for what we have accomplished in our lives, that we have reached a high sinless station and now we can talk about others falling short.

When we judge others we need to remember the oft quoted phrase that is not Biblical “but for the grace of God, go I” [coined by Englishman, John Bradford in the 16th century].

Anything we accomplish in this world would not have been possible were it not for God enabling and sustaining us. It is written in 1 Corinthians 4:7, “What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?” This is why we all should give God the glory—He alone deserves it.

We need to stay out of the business of condemning people to hell.

I have quoted him before but he bears quoting again: When Jon Meacham in a Newsweek article asked Pastor Billy Graham about who will be in heaven and who will not, he said “Those are the decisions only the Lord will make. It would be foolish for me to speculate of who will be there and who won’t.”

What a humble Christian role model for us all…

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The Cell that is Locked from the Inside…

Readers of C.S. Lewis will recognize the allusion that hell is a jail cell that is locked from the inside. This is a powerful image but what does it mean? Also what are the implications for hell? What is hell like?

First, let’s explore the image of the jail cell. Let me be clear. God does not want to put us in a jail cell or in any form of hell for that matter. God wishes that all of his creatures would join Him in heaven. He is a good God, kind to all who love him and extremely caring for his believers. But God is not into forcing people to do things. He wants us to make our own choices. From the beginning of man and woman, He did not force Adam and Eve to sin and he does not force me to sin. He also does not force me to love Him.

Real love, I was told by a very wise woman, is manifest when you give your loved one total freedom to choose and they choose you. They could go somewhere else but they don’t. When people are given the freedom to choose to follow their own way, they are in danger of sinning and think of it…if they choose sin it is like a jail cell that is locked from the inside. They have put themselves in the cell and they have the key to get out, but they are staying in it, due to their choices and the love for their sinning.

Even though the jail cell communicates a strong message, consider how Pastor Hamilton describes it. Of course, none of us know what it will be like. His idea is that first of all, it is full of people of do not wish to live by the will of God. They would rather do things their own way. They are “narcissistic” with an attitude that they have to look out for number one. They are prone to take advantage of others. They are users.

Goodness is not a part of hell. There are no boundaries in hell as people do exactly what they want. And everyone in hell is trying to get the “upper hand” on everyone else. Another image that Pastor Hamilton uses which is frightening comes from the famous poet Dante, who tells of a resident in hell who is gnawing on the flesh of another. Not much concern for others there…

The place is a veritable “nightmare”. Elmer Towns in his book Bible Answers for Almost All Your Questions says hell is a “place of memory and remorse.” The rich man in Luke 16 remembered his lost condition. It is also a “place of thirst.” He cried out for water because he is tormented by the flame [Luke 16:24]. It is a place of misery. He was in torment as he lifted his eyes from hell. As I have alluded in another post, it is a place of weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth [Matthew 13:42 and Matthew 24:51].   Maybe the most telling aspect of hell is that it is a place where man is separated from God. Towns says that unsaved people joke about how they won’t be lonely in hell: “all my friends will be there.” However in Revelation 2:1, 20:6, 14 and 21:8 hell is described as a second death and not only will people there be separated from God; they will be separated from others too. There is no indicated that you will enjoy the company of your friends in hell.

Pastor Hamilton has spent a lot of time in his book Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White explaining the position of Christians who are quick to send people to hell [the exclusivists] and he has explained the position of Christians who are inclusivists [all are accepted into heaven]. He is neither. He believes that hell is real and some people are going there.

“The inhabitants of hell [are] ever seeking to do whatever they wish to one another. This is utter darkness where there is weeping and gnashing of teeth.” He quotes from C.S. Lewis “There are only two kinds of people in the end: those who say to God, ‘Thy will be done,’ and those to whom God says, in the end ‘Thy will be done’”.

Living a life where exerting my will is the only thing on my mind will get me in that jail cell at the end of my life, you know that one where I can get out. I have the key which is living a better life, but I don’t choose to use it.

I stay in the cell because I love my sins.

What a bad decision.

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Who is Going to Hell?

“Not me!” I answer QUICKLY!

Ok, who then who is going to hell?

Many Christians say that all of those who have not accepted Christ as their savior are not going to heaven so where are they going? They are going to hell.

As you may have heard in the recent election talk, it is a binary choice regarding voting for president. It can be considered a binary choice between heaven or hell.   Of course, the choice is choose Jesus or go to hell.

Millions of people who could have chosen Jesus have not. They could have lived lives where they loved their neighbor and could have placed high value on justice and mercy but they have not: they have lived a life where they are the center of their universe. God could have removed their free will and God could have made them choose Him but that is not what God would do. God wants all to join Him and to live lives on earth as His children and His subjects. God is a good King, a loving King but he will not force people to be his subjects. He “beckons” them to come, to willingly follow Him. In the minds of exclusivists, there is a dark place reserved for people who make the choice to ignore God’s beckoning. Maybe they are banished to a place at death where everyone there only thinks of themselves. Maybe that would be a horrible version of hell. Indeed.

So we have established it.

Hell is full of people who could have accepted God as their savior but they choose not to.

Hell is also full of people who did not follow Jesus. Yes folks the Jews, Muslims and Hindus won’t make it into heaven as well as many other faiths like Buddhists, Sikhs, Bahia, Confucianists etc. We are talking about billions.   They are following other Gods, not ours and that will not get you into heaven.

Those who are quick to exclude people from heaven think many are not going to make it to the final wonderful reward.

It seems so funny that most who exclude say “They are not going to make it into heaven.” They don’t say “They are going to hell.”   The last statement sounds much more harsh doesn’t it?

Then we get to the hard cases. You know, the villagers on the islands where no missionary has been. Maybe they would have responded to the beckoning but they never were exposed to it.   Then you have the children of believers who die before they reach an age of accountability.   What happens to them?

I am not saying that all people should be included in heaven. The liberal Christian would say that all can be admitted, but this person ignores Matthew 5:22 when Jesus says someone who calls their neighbor a fool is going to hell. Matthew 5:27-30 says that those who lust after women in their hearts will suffer eternal punishment. Matthew 23:1-36 speaks of religious leaders who are hypocrites not making it into heaven. People who are not good stewards of God’s gifts are banished [Matthew 25: 14-30] and religious people who refuse to help others in need are not going to make it either [Matthew 25: 31-46].

Here is where the gray area comes in. This is why Adam Hamilton talks so much about hell in his book Seeing Gray in a World of Black and White. Jesus does spend time talking about people who profess to know God but he does not spend time talking about people of other religions or even people who have turned their back on God.

Here is what Jesus talks about in my reading of the Bible. He warns people like me not to call my neighbor a fool. He warns me not to lust after others in my heart. He warns me not to say one thing and act out another. He warns me not to turn my back on those in need.

As Christians we threaten the lost with hell. I have heard it over and over in church, on television and on the street. As Christians we threaten others of other faiths with hell, because we want them to convert.

We don’t like to think about it, but instead of talking to the lost or the people of other faiths, Jesus is threatening me with hell

And He should.

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